Life Update !

     Hi , it's been a few years three to be exact . What's happened in those three years well in short a lot.

Here's a basic list of whats happened since i last posted :

                  1. Aiden and I got married ,Barely .

       Okay so Aiden got ready at his moms wirh the boys  and I got ready at my parents house with the girls . My dad was the only male there besides the Photographer and my maid of honours son.We all get ready things seem to be going great . Then Aiden calls He forgot the paper work . His Best person (his best friends a girl) ran to the house to grab it and grabbed the girls legging well she was at it.Make ups done Hairs almost done , Phone call #2 the Lady is about to leave she has another wedding to go to . OH NO!CRAP! I literally jumped in my dress and ran out the door hair not done my full entourage behind me . We finished my hair in the car on the way to the wedding . I was supposed to enter in the back door so no one saw me. I entered in the wrong door . PLACES EVERYONE !!MY dad walked me down the isle as agreed upon by unspoken word months ago . We said our vows signed away and that was it the rest of the night went great. Mostly .But I guarantee if you ever hear anyone talking about how their wedding was so insanely perfect and nothing went wrong . They are probably lying . 

                         2. Everyone aged up a bunch .

    The kids all aged up a few years . Avianna's doing great. Daniel and Zoiee are smart little cookies who love to read even though Zoiee's answer to most things is I don't know . Raiden is the bossy big brother .Jaxx well he's awesome according to his teacher hes ready for grade 2 . They are all awesome to be honest .



3.My Dad died this summer .

      August 19th 2019 that's the day everything changed. How ? I don't know how to answer that , but everything and nothing changed . We all have our memories of him all different and some the same . Honestly I don't know how to write this right now and will probably do a million rough drafts and things .Before actually writing it all down here .there's a lot to say and I feel like it needs to be a full proper blog post . Just know it's coming.







                       4. My Aunts birthday was yesterday !
 
        Technically she's 64 but being a leap year baby means she finally had her sweet 16 .It was fun ,all the adults in the family went out and had dinner and suprised her . She thought it was just my mom and her daughter going for a birthday dinner not the whole family . Lol!Anyways I'll leave it there for now since that brings us to yesterday ,and nothing too interesting happened today .

How It All Started !!

Hi So here it goes my first blog post ...

   Most of which you'll probably know if you follow my Facebook page for People Call It Crazy I call It Life.
I ask that you'll all bare with me while I figure this new blogging website out . :)

    Okay so I'm 24 with four going on five children a fiance and a dog.I have a four year old son ,a 2 year old daughter and 10 month old twins .I am also currently 27 weeks pregnant . My fiance is 28 and our Dogo Argentino is around the same age as our oldest daughter .We are Christian but do not force religion on others.Although it might come up every now and again.

Here's more about us :

    I'll start with Raiden ,Raiden was born September, 3, 2009  and weighed 8
lbs. 5 oz. I was 18 . He  goes to school and i currently in J.K.  he loves  it .  Raiden seems to have issues with red dye . Is genrally a hyper active child . He is also in speech therapy.  He's my "love child" as his Biological father and I are no longer together and we'll leave it at that.This little guy changed my life forever. When I say this I mean it in the best way possible . He gave my life meaning and purpose and made me try harder  to get to where I want to be in life. He also helped me gain confidence which lead to me meet my fiance .

    My fiance and I met in very transitional times in our lives. I was transitioning into single parenthood and trying to figure out what that would look like . While he was transitioning into a sober lifestyle .  I ended up helping a friend babysit his cousins kids around the same time he was living with her .We hit it off after a few months and lived with my parents.Then we moved to a rooming house for about a month while we looked for our first apartment. We've moved a couple times since then and are now back in our home town. I'll tell you about it another time maybe .

   We started searching for an actual apartment because we found out I was pregnant with Avianna.
She is my second and biologically Dan's first although he's been around since Raiden was about 6 months. Avianna was born August ,7, 2011 and weighed 6lbs 8oz.  if I remember correctly. She's my wild child and had a flat head for a while as a baby , but other then that she's had no issues other then baby bottle cavities .and now has caps on her 4 front teeth . Maybe I'll get Dan to write a post about that one day . That was an appointment he went to with her ,and I'm pretty sure neither of them liked that experience.

   We found out Avianna and Raiden would be big siblings around the beginning of August 2012 . They officially became big siblings (Raiden for the second time) May 31,2013 at midnight .Zoiee was first and weighed 5lbs 14oz. and Daniel Jr. was second weighing 6lbs 8oz. .Don't quote me on that the whole day was a blur . The twins were one minute apart , and I ended up in a blood transfusion. Well actually two transfusions. Zoiee and Daniel were both diagnosed with torticollis at around 3 or 4 months and have been going to physiotherapy for about almost a year . They have been getting better and are in the 25 percentile for their age . Please don't ask me what that means  because truthfully I have NO CLUE !! All I do know is their crawling ,pulling them selves up and babbling. So I think they'll be okay at this point.

   So because of all this craziness we have something I like to call our "home team " Their basically a group of different people who help me figure out day to day things and how I'm fitting everyone "stuff" into my schedule. We have a Social Worker , a Health nurse , a Home visitor and an Infant and Child Development specialist who come to our home bi-weekly (usually) and just re evaluate and help us figure things out .

   Then there's Frankenstein. Oh Frank how we love you . Frank is about a 2 year old puppy we got "stuck" babysitting and their owner never came back to get him . Frank is a Dogo Argentio and he is the biggest suck EVER !! He has one blue eye and one brown , He's massive and has black spots on him like a dalmatian would ( there not actually supposed to be there) . We love him and he's become part of the family and is crazy protective over all my babies .Even when the twins were born Dan the kids and I were the only ones aloud to touch them . Everyone else got the back away stare and Frank would stand in front of them .

So that's us, and this is our story!!Please enjoy and feel free to share :)